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HOW’D WE GET HERE? AND MORE IMPORTANTLY,
HOW DO WE CHANGE? |
In the beginning you both were on the same page and if there were differences, they didn’t seem like they mattered all too much. You laughed, had fun together and your friendship was strong. You knew you could make it through everything.
But maybe now you are seeing a different picture. One where you find yourself saying:
“I don't feel understood,”
“Who are you?”
“They’re not the person I married.”
“I’m trying to make all the changes they asked and it’s still not changing anything”
Although we know “marriage is difficult sometimes,” where we get stuck is how to make it less difficult. There are most likely key ingredients missing from your relationship that would help you feel closer, loved well and understood, yet these will likely not come through a self-help book or asking another couple how they manage things.
You will see the largest change with real-time practice with a professional. Every great player has a great coach who saves them time and improves their skill and this is done with practice.
Strategic practice is where you learn to master you marriage and get unstuck.
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Less confusion, less exhaustion after disagreements, more trust that you can do this well and have a satisfying relationship that others desire
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The average couple waits six years before seeking professional help. That is years and years of pain and resentment stacked so high you don’t feel much else besides done. Don’t get to this point!
I will introduce and walk you through the top-methods designed by experts in the field including: The Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real. I also help you feel safe incorporating your spiritual beliefs, specifically of the Christian orientation, should you desire this be part of your work.
But maybe now you are seeing a different picture. One where you find yourself saying:
“I don't feel understood,”
“Who are you?”
“They’re not the person I married.”
“I’m trying to make all the changes they asked and it’s still not changing anything”
Although we know “marriage is difficult sometimes,” where we get stuck is how to make it less difficult. There are most likely key ingredients missing from your relationship that would help you feel closer, loved well and understood, yet these will likely not come through a self-help book or asking another couple how they manage things.
You will see the largest change with real-time practice with a professional. Every great player has a great coach who saves them time and improves their skill and this is done with practice.
Strategic practice is where you learn to master you marriage and get unstuck.
___________________
Less confusion, less exhaustion after disagreements, more trust that you can do this well and have a satisfying relationship that others desire
.__________________
The average couple waits six years before seeking professional help. That is years and years of pain and resentment stacked so high you don’t feel much else besides done. Don’t get to this point!
I will introduce and walk you through the top-methods designed by experts in the field including: The Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real. I also help you feel safe incorporating your spiritual beliefs, specifically of the Christian orientation, should you desire this be part of your work.