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“I CANNOT BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING”
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You just found out your partner is having an affair.Your world is most likely spinning, like the very ground you’re standing on is sand and you’re sinking. You question everything while trying to put all of the pieces together to make some kind of sense out of it all.
You’re probably not sleeping well, maybe even edgy with your kids. Throw out the idea of concentrating, your thoughts are all over the place. Your mood shifts so rapidly in between rage – shouting, accusing, to complete breakdown of crying so deeply you can feel pain in your body.
Did you know this is all normal after trust has been broken? You are not alone and you are not going crazy although I know it can feel that way.
Or maybe this page is for you, the unfaithful partner.You stepped out of the relationship and maybe have no idea why even though your partner is demanding to know. Your secret is now known and you are being asked where your commitment lies. This likely feels overwhelming to you too.
You may be feeling both panic and relief at the truth finally being revealed, but now what?
What about the kids?
How do we move on from here? Can we move on from here?
Did you know two-thirds of couples stay together after an affair?
HOW and IF you can stay together after an affair is the tricky part that you will need help with. To try and do it alone is a surefire way to ensure longer-lasting pain and suffering; it is a situation too severe, waters too treacherous, to attempt to navigate solo.
Having a third party alongside you who is trained in working specifically with broken trust can help you build a relationship stronger than ever. Yes you read that correctly. I have helped couples who have had every arrow pointing at divorce learn to heal, communicate what matters and restore trust.
I use well-researched, effective methods of Gottman Therapy, Relational Life Therapy and Janis Abrhams-Spring to help you have direction and know where you’re going should you agree you would like to go the direction of repair. I also welcome you to incorporate your spiritual beliefs, specifically of the Christian orientation, should you desire this as part of your work. You will not feel lost or fearful, but rather confident you don’t have to figure it all out alone. I can help you with this.
You’re probably not sleeping well, maybe even edgy with your kids. Throw out the idea of concentrating, your thoughts are all over the place. Your mood shifts so rapidly in between rage – shouting, accusing, to complete breakdown of crying so deeply you can feel pain in your body.
Did you know this is all normal after trust has been broken? You are not alone and you are not going crazy although I know it can feel that way.
Or maybe this page is for you, the unfaithful partner.You stepped out of the relationship and maybe have no idea why even though your partner is demanding to know. Your secret is now known and you are being asked where your commitment lies. This likely feels overwhelming to you too.
You may be feeling both panic and relief at the truth finally being revealed, but now what?
What about the kids?
How do we move on from here? Can we move on from here?
Did you know two-thirds of couples stay together after an affair?
HOW and IF you can stay together after an affair is the tricky part that you will need help with. To try and do it alone is a surefire way to ensure longer-lasting pain and suffering; it is a situation too severe, waters too treacherous, to attempt to navigate solo.
Having a third party alongside you who is trained in working specifically with broken trust can help you build a relationship stronger than ever. Yes you read that correctly. I have helped couples who have had every arrow pointing at divorce learn to heal, communicate what matters and restore trust.
I use well-researched, effective methods of Gottman Therapy, Relational Life Therapy and Janis Abrhams-Spring to help you have direction and know where you’re going should you agree you would like to go the direction of repair. I also welcome you to incorporate your spiritual beliefs, specifically of the Christian orientation, should you desire this as part of your work. You will not feel lost or fearful, but rather confident you don’t have to figure it all out alone. I can help you with this.
